Author Archives: Avie Genoguin

Aa I’ve continued Reading, I’ve reached habit 5, which says to ” seek first to understand than to be Understood,” which we already know what it means when we hear those words. If there are times that people won’t listen to you, but only to your fucos and not to the rest of the story. You must be understanding in order to be Understood by others: we all want to comprehend in order to make things plain, it has been said that you must constantly be understanding to others in order to be Understood. seek first to comprehend simply means to pay attention to what others are saying, and willingness. Be open minded to each other and because of this you can understand and to be Understood. It was also said that in able to understood it involves a deep shift in paradigm , we have first to figure out the specific person motives so that we can based it on how would we react in the particular situation, i also learned about the autobiographical response.

I feel so happy when im in Habit 4 which is think win/lose. The habit of effective interpersonal leadership is think win/lose. I also learned the 6 paradigm of human interaction l, these are win/win, Lose/Win, lose/lose, win/win,or no deal and these six (6) has it explanation but i will be focused in win/lose in life we need to he able to experience the win/lose for us to learn and to be better or we have to be ourselves . There are times that we are in down and sometimes we are in up. Because God put that to have a lesson and to Realize it afterwards, you don’t need to pretend just to accept by society, even you push that to be like that, its not going to be success. Don’t pretend that you are Good at that. Because no matter how you pretend not working. Just like when you ina class your teacher Electing a new officials because its been years and it time to Re-elict the Officers. The President and Vice President and the other one is bad and the other one is a good leader but your classmates chose the Good leader because they know he can really can do and act as a president in your classroom but the bad Man request to have a re-count the number of who really vote him. Its show that the Goodman win. But the Badman can’t accept the lost he Got in that election. Afterwards he just accept that he lose over the Goodman. Habit 4, Really all about creating and involving yourself into a win/ lose kinds of Situations, but can benefit and realized you. Through the process of it. We need to set ourself in that situation you need to be confident to what ever the result you need to be ready yourself for the results . Its also you need to build a trust into yourself . Its all about working with yourself a d interact with other. Or in simple words having q collaboriting by building and helping each others, i found really habit 4 full of lesson i really enjoying reading a d write my thoughs about it

As i have understand and read thoroughly the habit 2 (two) which is the “Begin with the End of Mind” o Found it very useful as i Understand the true meaning of it. I am kind of a Person who set a goal for that, but won’t fulfill it. Im the one who doesn’t keep promises. I have a dream but i don’t know what it is, at the age of 19 i really don’t know what i am going to be in the future.

This profession i take I dont know if this really what my goal/ Dream is. I ask myself many times i am really happy at this? I am thankful for what I have? I really don’t know what to do about it. My life is a mess, my mind is just like a kindergarten im so jealous of my friends that they already know what they really are in the future, but me? I always make my parents disappoint because they don’t have a daughter like their expected. But now i really put myself some effort that someday i make them proud of me. I know my parents will be proud of me. Now i want to set my goal and make a plan on it i make a ladder and mark (X) when im not follow that i set to myself, i make a consequences that surely Realize that i must do that because that is my Dream my future can be defined in what i do in the past. I make myself a better person. everyone around me look at me with a proud i. Their eyes, smile in their lips, And to be proud of my self. I know all of us have a mission to be fulfilled. Always remember that we need to achieve even just a small, atleast you make yourself proud and people around you at the same time.

As i have read the Paradigm principle, inside out and the overview about the seven habits, i honestly got to learned a lot of lesson which can be applicable into real life or in reality, i also gained a lot of knowledge which i can truly apply in my daily life.

“If you want to change the situation, change yourself” it comes up in my mind that how can i change other people if myself i can’t? It start with our self not in other people if you want to be success in life you better change yourself and do some work.

I learned that paradigm comes from greek word means a theory, assumption, model and perception. In the first place as i stare at it, she’s an old woman as i analyze it thoroughly, we see things differently and all of us are have opinion and with that Case we need to respect each other options. i have learned that habit is a combination of skill and knowledge, i have a better understanding of skill and knowledge, i have a better understanding of the distinction between dependent, independent, and interdependent, and i enjoy reading it. I have also learned about the tree type of assets that age people physically, financially, and emotionally. I still have a lot of lessons that I’ve learned that i can apply in my life, and i enjoy reading about paradigm and it all Worth it.