Habit 5: seek to Understand, then to be Understood

Aa I’ve continued Reading, I’ve reached habit 5, which says to ” seek first to understand than to be Understood,” which we already know what it means when we hear those words. If there are times that people won’t listen to you, but only to your fucos and not to the rest of the story. You must be understanding in order to be Understood by others: we all want to comprehend in order to make things plain, it has been said that you must constantly be understanding to others in order to be Understood. seek first to comprehend simply means to pay attention to what others are saying, and willingness. Be open minded to each other and because of this you can understand and to be Understood. It was also said that in able to understood it involves a deep shift in paradigm , we have first to figure out the specific person motives so that we can based it on how would we react in the particular situation, i also learned about the autobiographical response.